Ndifuna umntu ezinzima budlelwane - yokucinga ngayo

njl, kodwa budlelwane kufuneka ukusoloko ezinzima

Sinako distinguish phakathi ezinzima budlelwane kwaye ngaphantsi ezinzima budlelwane, kodwa ntoni a ezinzima budlelwane nkqu zithetha ukuthini? Eneneni, oko kuthetha ukuba into eyahlukileyo kuba wonke umntu, wonk ubani kwezabo ingcamango ka-budlelwane nabanye, intsebenziswano kunye nothando: kuchitha, honesty, exclusivity, loyalty, njlYintoni intsingiselo a budlelwane, kutheni, ukuba ayinjalo ezinzima? Obutsha k ubonakala ngathi ukuzisa kuthi kukufutshane kunye, kodwa enyanisweni baya yenza isithuba phakathi kwethu nabanye abantu apho sisebenzisa ayisasebenzi ngokwethu. Endaweni yoko, siya wear zemaleko kwaye zemaleko ukuba wazifihla ngenxa yethu, ukuze thina uzive ngcono kwaye musa bonisa abanye abantu abathi thina ingaba ngenene. A ezinzima budlelwane ngomnye ukuba ikuqonda ngokunyaniseka, inyaniso, inkululeko, intlonipho, kwaye seriousness. Budlelwane nabanye ukuba zibalulekile kwaye eyodwa, nokuba kuxhomekeke uhlobo budlelwane. A ezinzima budlelwane kuthetha kakhulu, ingakumbi: Ukuba usebenzisa ngendlela emfutshane - okanye elide ubudlelwane kunye ezintandathu abantwana, kufuneka ukusoloko ngokwakho kwaye wabelane yakho iingcinga kunye umlingane wakho. Thina bakholisa ukuba vumelani abanye dress uthi yintoni thina ukuba sifuna ukuva, kodwa apho ingaba ukuba baphile? Ukuba, kuba yure, ngeveki, okanye emihlanu, i-ubudlelwane kunye nomnye umntu ibandakanya i-obligation ukuba siyabahlonela kwaye thembeka omnye umntu kwi-phambili kubo. Kwaye xa wabelana ngesondo, kufuneka nangakumbi intlonipho, kuba esiphelweni uya kuba ze ngokwahlukeneyo. Ayonto ukuba ezinzima ngokwaneleyo? Ukuba iqhube kude emva kokuba anayithathela seduced omnye umntu, ke, ngenxa yokuba izinto koyika ka-ngokwakho, besoyika ukuba unengxaki deontological obligation ukuphendula lowo ufaka. Kodwa nkqu ukuba enjalo budlelwane nje a ekunene busuku, ke kakhulu respectful. Uthi yintoni ofuna, ngokucacileyo kwaye honestly. Akukho namnye unako nokukhalaza ukuba zombini kuziphatha respectfully.

A brave umntu omnye umntu owenze le isibindi ukubona abo bamele.

Umntu ongelilo besoyika ukuba mamela. Ukuba wone uvakalelo kuwe, uya thetha malunga nani endaweni nje uyasebenza kude kuwe. Ngoko ke, ukuba yena ufuna ukubona kuwe, ngoko endaweni sneaking jikelele na cat entertainer kwaye uzama ukujonga indifferent.

Fihla, hayi ukusuka yakho Miyalelo

Xa mna asazanga wena, yena, ngaba oko ngayo yonke intliziyo yakhe kwaye umphefumlo. Ezinzima budlelwane nabanye kuba abaninzi imiba onamandla kuyo. Ingxaki kukuba abo ukufakela oko sifuna into ungathanda, kodwa ngaxeshanye, thina andinaku appreciate abanye kwaye lahla abanye, ukwenza loo ezinzima budlelwane nabanye ukuze babe ngathi ayixhasi namnye okulungileyo kuthi.

Ekubeni kwi ubudlelwane kunye mntu ezinzima kwi-ngokwayo.

Kwa budlelwane ukuba sele kuphela ngesondo yeyona ezinzima. Ukuba ndifuna ukuba wabelane ngesondo kunye nani kuba ngobunye ubusuku kwaye ke shiya, ndiya kukuxelela ukuba ungakwazi ukwenza enizaziyo, kwaye andisayi kukuxelela eliwaka lies ukuba uza kukuxelela ukuba uphelelwe kulungile, ukuba uyavuma. Xa ufuna ukundixelela ukuba ngaba uthando kum, ndishiya, hayi emva kweentsuku ezimbini, uphephe, musa mamelani, musa umnxeba, musa ukuyeka ukuphendula imiyalezo yam, okanye musa utyibiliko. Andikho eliphathiswe umsebenzi wakho. Ukuba ufuna ukundixelela ukuba ufuna ukuthanda kwam, kwaye ndifuna ukuva ngendlela efanayo, ngoko ke bobabini kufuneka kuba, ukuba sino ukubonelelwa izinto kukwenza, ukuze sifumane ngakumbi ixesha kuba nathi. Ukuba abe free ayikho i-kude. Uthi nika ngamnye ezinye isithuba ukuba siyabahlonela abo kuni ngabo, ngubani na kuni ngabo, hayi wena, yakho umdla kwaye yakho yethutyana. Ukuba umntu oppresses kwenu ngenxa yenu inkululeko akuthethi ukuba ngokubhekiselele kuwe, ngoko ke mhlawumbi baya ngokubhekiselele kwabo, nje musa ngokubhekiselele kuwe. Kwaye ke, ngenxa yazo zonke ezi zinto ukuba ndifuna a ezinzima budlelwane. Ndivuma ezinzima okanye fun budlelwane nabanye zithetha into kum. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba baqonde xa umntu lacks intlonipho, cowardice, okanye isebenzisa kude. Cinga blogs kunye opinions kwaye ulwazi malunga psychology, philosophy, kwaye awukho.